Well you all freaking faiiiil! I mean, the point was because I was blogfailing you were to ask me anything you ever wanted to ask, ever. That's a once in a lifetime opportunity and do you want to know how many people asked? One! One person. Although I got three responses, thank you to those who responded. So, to answer your question Graham/Gad123. I can't really pick a favourite movie, but these are some of my favourites: The Little Mermaid, Romeo and Juliet, 10 Things I Hate About You and The Sex and the City Movie.
So in order to post some kind of question-answer mathingy, I found this off a friend on facebook and it's a bit random but it's not one of those "whats your favourite colour/person/place/thing" lark. It's some interesting stuff. Or not. You decide. Ha. Anyway, back to normal updates later this week :)
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling them how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Either way is nerve-wrecking, because telling your feelings face to face is super awkward if they don't feel the same and being told how someone feels is awkward if you don't feel the same.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
It was probably to do with the lack of seeing my manfriend due to lack of funds and now due to illness.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago nonstop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
My Mum. To let her know the situation and tell her that I love her and to pass on the message that I love everyone else too :P.
4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
I wouldn't tell anyone and just try and live life as normally as possible while doing some of the things I've always wanted to do without arousing suspicion. If you say "here I'm gonna die" people will just make you stay in bed and rest and give you the sympathy vote. No, I want to live the rest of my life while I can!
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust
Trust. Love comes from trusting the other person wholeheartedly. So I picked one but end up with both :P
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dog’s life?
Save the dog. I'd probably not stay in that job for much longer if it's like that anyway.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
Tbh, I'd probably not tell them but find a way to end the relationship. If I'm unfaithful then it''s obvious that the relationship isn't working for me so I really shouldn't be in it.
8. Your friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
Depends if I felt the same or not. If I did feel the same, I'd give them a hug and tell them I feel the same way and sort ourselves out. If I didn't, I'd apologise and say I dont feel the same way but I want to still be friends if they are willing to do it too.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Sometimes. I mean, Im only human afterall. Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them eventually. But you know, I think I'm a good friend when it comes down to it. At least, I hope I am.
11. Does love = sex?
Definitely not.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
I really cant remember. It was probably with friends about manfriends and admitting that I really feel something for a certain someone.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back?
That I dont love them back because it makes the friendship awkward if it's just one-sided.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My Mum. Because she's awesome.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
Jesse I believe, she's one of my besties.
18. Imagine: it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
A big macho man to beat up the dude outside.
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
Er. I've no idea. I mean like, no probably not. Just because I have no idea how to do CPR and I'd probably ring an ambulance and panic instead.
21. You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your reason for making the decision?
My granny. Because apparantley the newborn is just a newborn. I mean, Im not up for killing babies but you know, I love my granny a lot.
22. Are you old fashioned?
I dont think I am, maybe in some things.
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
Who does such a thing? Haha.
24. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love with a broken heart. Because broken hearts teaches us things. As the quote goes "It is better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all".
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
I would wish that life made sense.
So in order to post some kind of question-answer mathingy, I found this off a friend on facebook and it's a bit random but it's not one of those "whats your favourite colour/person/place/thing" lark. It's some interesting stuff. Or not. You decide. Ha. Anyway, back to normal updates later this week :)
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling them how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
Either way is nerve-wrecking, because telling your feelings face to face is super awkward if they don't feel the same and being told how someone feels is awkward if you don't feel the same.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
It was probably to do with the lack of seeing my manfriend due to lack of funds and now due to illness.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago nonstop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
My Mum. To let her know the situation and tell her that I love her and to pass on the message that I love everyone else too :P.
4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
I wouldn't tell anyone and just try and live life as normally as possible while doing some of the things I've always wanted to do without arousing suspicion. If you say "here I'm gonna die" people will just make you stay in bed and rest and give you the sympathy vote. No, I want to live the rest of my life while I can!
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust
Trust. Love comes from trusting the other person wholeheartedly. So I picked one but end up with both :P
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dog’s life?
Save the dog. I'd probably not stay in that job for much longer if it's like that anyway.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her? Why or Why not?
Tbh, I'd probably not tell them but find a way to end the relationship. If I'm unfaithful then it''s obvious that the relationship isn't working for me so I really shouldn't be in it.
8. Your friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
Depends if I felt the same or not. If I did feel the same, I'd give them a hug and tell them I feel the same way and sort ourselves out. If I didn't, I'd apologise and say I dont feel the same way but I want to still be friends if they are willing to do it too.
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Sometimes. I mean, Im only human afterall. Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them eventually. But you know, I think I'm a good friend when it comes down to it. At least, I hope I am.
11. Does love = sex?
Definitely not.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
I really cant remember. It was probably with friends about manfriends and admitting that I really feel something for a certain someone.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back?
That I dont love them back because it makes the friendship awkward if it's just one-sided.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My Mum. Because she's awesome.
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
Jesse I believe, she's one of my besties.
18. Imagine: it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
A big macho man to beat up the dude outside.
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
Er. I've no idea. I mean like, no probably not. Just because I have no idea how to do CPR and I'd probably ring an ambulance and panic instead.
21. You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your reason for making the decision?
My granny. Because apparantley the newborn is just a newborn. I mean, Im not up for killing babies but you know, I love my granny a lot.
22. Are you old fashioned?
I dont think I am, maybe in some things.
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
Who does such a thing? Haha.
24. Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
True love with a broken heart. Because broken hearts teaches us things. As the quote goes "It is better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all".
25. If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
I would wish that life made sense.
